Couples work is very interactive. We will be considering how your early childhood experiences and relationships (such as relationship to parents, or how your parents related to each other) affect your current relationships. We will explore patterns and dynamics you create unconsciously. We will identity what you project onto your partner, what your needs are, how to communicate those needs, how to strengthen your sense of love, how to resolve conflict, and how to listen to hear what is really being communicated. Often times (as with most therapy) the struggle could seem worse before it gets better because we need to get under the surface content argument and down to the underlying issue, which is usually saturated in pain. Couples work can be really rewarding because nothing is impossible. I have witnessed resolution & deep connection out of the most seemingly difficult situations.